I relate to this more than you know!! All of my relationships have inevitably turned out like this, no matter how optimistically they started off. Bed rotting is so real.
I "love" the way young people today (and by young I mean under 50 at this point because social media has made us all into dithering children) do the whole FUCK YOU text and then block you. There's no need to debate or dialogue or discuss; just fuck you and I'm gone.
At 34, I still struggle with this. Co-dependency and bed-rotting (before it was a word lol). I have an amazing man right now and I feel I can’t be what he needs me to be because I’m stuck in this cycle you just shared about. It’s a tough one to break.
i understand so deeply. when i feel safe with someone all my body wants to do is rest and rot with them <\3
this hit like a fucking brick, and you didn't even hold my hand first
I love this, please keep writing. You remind me of my favorite book “My Year of Rest and Relaxation”
omg i've been trying to find the screenshot of this book in my camera roll for months tyyy
hit a little too close to home… needed this thank you
Tbh I daydream about bed rotting and hate myself for not rotting harder when I had the freedom to lol
i’ve actually never related more to this
oof very real as a fellow codependent depressive
This made me go off in a spiral of thoughts. Your writing style is impressive. Reminds me of Emma Cline, a bit.
What's the book you wrote?
❤️
this got me considering my life choices.... omg thank u for writing this
found some great writing from tik tok wow
I relate to this more than you know!! All of my relationships have inevitably turned out like this, no matter how optimistically they started off. Bed rotting is so real.
I "love" the way young people today (and by young I mean under 50 at this point because social media has made us all into dithering children) do the whole FUCK YOU text and then block you. There's no need to debate or dialogue or discuss; just fuck you and I'm gone.
Yeah.
At 34, I still struggle with this. Co-dependency and bed-rotting (before it was a word lol). I have an amazing man right now and I feel I can’t be what he needs me to be because I’m stuck in this cycle you just shared about. It’s a tough one to break.
so real
this just threw a brick to my face wow